PWOS Support
Those who have caused sexual harm
Trigger warning: This page discusses sexual harm, which may be triggering for those impacted.
Please take grace and care for yourself. Don’t read if this causes you pain, but please know that I am seeking to help all in the spirit of safe communities, preventing recidivism, and allowing for healing.
If you have caused sexual harm and are looking for help, likely you have come to this page with either considerable fear or considerable exhaustion.
If you are trying to change, to recover, to make amends for the harm you have done so that you can live with integrity – I am here to help you
Regardless of whatever happened in the past,
Everyone deserves a second chance.
Support for People Who Offended Sexually (PWOS)
I work with those who have the foundation of accountability for their actions.
If you are looking for assistance please consider the following:
If your accountability for your actions rests primarily on someone else (society, your partner, or your victim) there is a likelihood that we are not in a place to work together. I am most effective with those who are able to be considerably challenged in their thinking. There will be tough conversations and likely you will hear harsh realities and truths that you may not like. The discomfort of this work is a requirement of real, sustainable change and healing.
Recovery coaching is not used in order to skirt charges, reduce sentencing, or avoid jail time. The expectation is not perfection, the expectation is a willingness to try the things that are being asked of you.